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Empower or Be Sour

This article will apply to many women who read this, some may not relate at all, some may be the sour factor on the other end; male or female.

When I walk into a room, I'm usually, more so than not, judged off the bat as a b**** or a nice tall woman. Polar opposites. This judgement is rendered based off of the individual's self view. If you are confident in your own mind and body and/or you have conquered particular obstacles in your life, you tend to not judge people. This is a personal observation I've been studying since I first took up Sociology as a minor in college.

I've heard time and time again, I'm intimidating because I am confident and walk with almost a demanding presence. This is not to give you an image cockiness but it is literally who I am. I am my mother's daughter. I am self aware, self respecting and know what I want. A woman who tends to speak her mind and know what she wants is considered a b****.

If you look deep into these two different opinions of a confident, alpha woman being a b****, you'll see it can apply to men and women:

~In a masogonistic sense, a woman with a voice and confidence is a b****

~In an envious girl vs girl viewpoint, a woman with a lot going for herself or confidence is a b****

Alpha:informal denoting a person who has a dominant role or position within a particular sphere."take turns cooking for each other if one of you is too much of an alpha chef"


Alpha----->go ahead and be a b****

Other----->but for those of you who are the Sour Patch Kid, take a look within and self analyze if you are "hating" or "jealous" of someone to any capacity, that's alright but see what you can do to better yourself and achieve the goals you desire.

Negative Thoughts Don't Bring About Positive Change

Disclaimer-This doesn't go for all cases, all opinions, not everyone thinks a strong business woman or confident lady is a biatch ;) Just showing an alternative view on the typical alpha female.

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